Why ‘Soft Ghosting’ Is SO Much Worse Than Being Left On Read Forever
By Molly Burford
It goes a little something like this:
You’ve been seeing someone for a while. You’ve gone on a number of dates and text regularly. You’re sensing a strong connection and you genuinely feel like you could see the two of you becoming something real.
But one day, something begins to change. It’s subtle at first. For example, one random Monday they take a longer time than usual to reply and are short. You figure it was a busy day at work or that they’re in a bad mood. But then their replies continue to become shorter and more sporadic as the days move forward. They stop asking you what you’re up to over the weekend or are busy when you ask them to meet up.
So you give them some space because you think maybe that’s what they need. You stop reaching out. You never hear from them again. To this day, they still watch your Instagram Stories.
Sorry, but you’ve been soft ghosted.
Soft ghosting is when someone you’re seeing or talking to gradually fades from your life. They reply to your texts with reactions or emojis, but don’t make an effort to truly respond to what you’re saying or continue the conversation. They dodge invitations to see one another and stop initiating dates altogether.
