Why Being Too Independent Isn’t A Good Thing
Hyper-independence deprives us of life’s vibrant tapestry.
By Karin Hadadan
Independence is a remarkable quality that empowers us to navigate life’s labyrinth on our own terms. But what happens when this self-reliance turns into hyper-independence, casting shadows on our path to building meaningful connections, nurturing emotional and mental well-being, and unlocking our full potential? This phenomenon is an intricate dance, especially for single souls or those entwined in long-term relationships, where leaning on a partner for support feels like a distant constellation.
Lonely Echoes of Hyper-Independence
In our relentless quest for self-sufficiency, we often find ourselves entangled in the web of hyper-independence, a silent struggle that leaves us grappling with solitude and emotional turmoil. The self-imposed bubble of extreme self-reliance can amplify our pre-existing mental health struggles, fostering a garden of anxiety and loneliness. There are moments where we enjoy these quiet periods alone, but other times, it forces us toward coping mechanisms that bear more pain than healing. It’s a lonely road, one that inadvertently leads to isolation.
