When Your Soulmate Is A Girl With Anxiety

When your forever person is a girl with anxiety, you need to be okay with the concept of anxiety.

Thought Catalog
3 min readMay 25, 2023
Rogério Souza

By Holly Riordan

When your forever person is a girl with anxiety, you need to be okay with the concept of anxiety. You can’t fault her for having it. You can’t make her feel like she’s broken or a burden because she deserves someone who sees her worth. Someone who loves her throughout her anxiety, not in spite of it.

When your forever person is a girl with anxiety, you need to accept her exactly the way she is. You can’t pressure her to change. Support her whenever she wants to leave her comfort zone but don’t force her out of it against her will, thinking you’re doing her a favor. She is a grown person and can make her own decisions. She can decide what is best for herself.

When your forever person is a girl with anxiety, you need to practice patience. You can’t pressure her to hit milestones too early or open up to you before she’s genuinely ready. If you push too hard, then you’ll push her away. You have to allow her to set the pace without making her feel bad about that pace.

When your forever person is a girl with anxiety, you need to learn the way she wants to be comforted. Be there for her when she needs…

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