This Is The Kind Of Person You’re Always Attracted To (But Aren’t Meant To Be With), Based On Your Zodiac Sign

Thought Catalog
6 min readJan 8, 2022
Eman Genatilan

By January Nelson


(March 21st to April 19th)

The person who submits to you.

Something odd about Aries is that they always seem to be attracted to people who are just a little bit beneath them. It usually has to do with confidence (they set the bar low so they can feel amazing when they know they’re worshipped by their partner) or their natural propensity to teach and lead. Regardless, Aries will drive themselves into madness trying to figure out why they are never really happy in a relationship with someone who seems to fit the bill for what they want. It’s not until they realize that what they really want is someone to lead beside them, not to take on the teacher/parent role with their significant other.


(April 20th to May 21st)

The person who is miles out of your league.

Tauruses become intensely interested in anyone they think is interesting and chic and smart and attractive. In fact, they want to befriend, date and marry people who they perceive to be an upgrade in social status, and end up very disappointed when they discover their relationship was built on illusions and ideas. Tauruses get super swept away by people who seem like they have it all together, but with whom they have no real chemistry. The spoiler alert here is that they don’t actually like these people, they like some aspects of how they put themselves together.


(May 22nd to June 21st)

The person who won’t commit to you.

If a Gemini needs anything in life, they need someone who is grounded, logical and not afraid of commitment. For a Gemini to really feel secure and loved and steady in a relationship, they need to know they’re with someone who can withstand all of their moods, opinions and dreams. However, Geminis often find themselves entangled with people who are just too all over the place, and who make them feel even worse about themselves than before. They never consider the more practical side of love, which is that you have to use your heart and your head.



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