This Is The Brutal Truth About Going No Contact With Your Situationship

If you’re going no contact with your situationship because you think it will make them realize your worth, then this article is for you.

Thought Catalog
3 min readOct 5, 2023
Ozan Çulha

By Molly Burford

Maybe you’ve been in the midst of a situationship for a few months now and still have no idea if it will ever become a defined relationship. You have strong chemistry and definitely have an emotional connection, too. You trust each other and have a great time together. But they still aren’t “ready” for a relationship and just want to “go with the flow” and see where it goes.

While this initially sounded like a promising arrangement, you have to admit you’re starting to feel insecure. You’re being less understanding about their hesitation. You’ve known each other for the same amount of time after all. You’re ready for a relationship with them. Why aren’t they ready for one with you?

As you mull over the question, you begin to realize how unappreciated you feel as well. You begin to feel the tears crawling up behind your eyes and they start falling down your face before you can stop them. You just want them to see your worth. You just want them to care. You just want them to commit.

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