The Worst Relationship Of Your Life Will Be With The Man Who Doesn’t Know What He Wants

Thought Catalog
3 min readJul 12, 2022
Odonata Wellnesscenter

By Holly Riordan

The worst relationship of your life will be with a man who doesn’t know what he wants because he will leave the decision making up to you. You’ll be in charge of planning all the dates and picking all the restaurants because he won’t be able to make up his mind. He’ll have trouble making even the simplest decisions, which means all of the responsibility in the relationship will fall on you. You’ll have to do the work of two people because he won’t want to have a say.

The worst relationship of your life will be with a man who doesn’t know what he wants because he is never going to commit. He won’t want to put a label on the relationship — or take the relationship to the next level once you’re already a couple — because that means choosing you. And he won’t want to choose anyone until he figures out what he wants from this world. His indecision is going to screw you over because he won’t want to dedicate the rest of his life to you when he isn’t even sure what the rest of his life looks like.

The worst relationship of your life will be with a man who doesn’t know what he wants because he’ll want to keep his options open. He won’t want to get too close to you because he’s scared that by being with you, he’s missing out on being with…

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