The ACTUAL Reason Why You’re Feeling Lonely

Loneliness can strike anyone, whether you’re single or surrounded by people.

Thought Catalog
3 min readJan 22, 2024
Feodor Chistyakov

By Karin Hadadan

Loneliness can strike anyone, whether you’re single or surrounded by people. It’s a feeling that can leave you disconnected and craving deeper connections, often making you feel as though you’re walking on a deserted path with little love and little excitement. But here’s the truth: the root cause of loneliness is not due to the lack of others around you; it often lies in not fully connecting with yourself and enjoying your own solitude. The most important relationship you’ll ever have is the one with yourself, and when that’s neglected, feelings of loneliness can take over.

1. Self-Exploration Is Key

Loneliness can stem from not truly knowing who you are and what makes you unique. Take the time to explore your interests, passions, and values. What do you enjoy doing when no one is watching? By delving into self-discovery, you’ll not only uncover your true self but also develop a stronger sense of identity.

2. Embrace Your Solitude

Many people fear being alone, equating it with loneliness. However, solitude can be a beautiful thing when embraced. Spend time with…

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