Stay Single Until You Find Someone Who Has These 40 Green Flags

Mairon Silveira

By Molly Burford

1. They make you feel safe. You don’t have to question where you stand with them. You are able to be open with them because they have proven they are someone who will not mishandle your vulnerability or use it against you later.
2. They remember the little things about you. Not only do they remember but find ways to celebrate them.
3. They’re the first person you want to call with good news. They’re the first person you want to call with bad news too. And boring news. And this-shit-went-down-at-the-office-and-I-need-to-tell-you-about-it news.
4. You feel beautiful around them.
5. They’re kind to people who work in the service industry.
6. If they mess up, they apologize and then actually change their behavior.
7. They encourage your growth.
8. They are good with kids. Even if you don’t want kids yourself, being kind to children shows a good heart.
9. They give you the aux cord.
10. They send you music they think you’d love or that reminded them of you.
11. They fight for resolution (not to be right).
12. They are curious. About ideas. About other cultures. About experiences…