How To Be Friends With An Ex

By Chelsea Fagan

Spend time apart. Like, a lot of time. Don’t do that weird, awful thing where you extend the breakup into 17 mini-breakups and keep cutting each other in the exact same places, just because you like to see it bleed. Mute them on your social media and take them out of your phone, cut yourself off from every chance you have to see them and feel jealousy, or resentment, or nostalgia, or anything at…

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