9 Signs You’re Officially Over Your Situationship

You’ve forgiven them for not being able to commit to you in the way you wanted and needed.

Morteza Ghanbari

By Molly Burford

1. When your phone buzzes, you no longer hope it’s a message from them. In fact, your situationship doesn’t even come to mind when you get a notification because they’re so far removed from your life at this point. HOWEVER…
2. If you did hear from them, you 100 percent wouldn’t reply. Even though it would be hard, you’d know better and wouldn’t want to get wrapped up in the false hope again. You wouldn’t risk reopening old wounds, a telltale sign they’ve truly closed and you’ve actually healed.
3. You’ve unfollowed your situationship on socials. And you don’t go to check up on them either. Like, ever. Not even at 2 AM when you can’t sleep.
4. You no longer resent them. In fact, you don’t feel much of anything towards them at all. They’re just someone you sort of dated for a little while. You’re indifferent.
5. You’re able to admit you fell for them without falling apart about it. Because a situationship is an undefined, casual relationship, catching very real, intense feelings for them can feel foolish. But because you’re totally over your situationship, you’re able to both…