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6 Concrete Signs You’re In A One-Sided Relationship

You feel drained more often than not.

Thought Catalog
3 min readOct 12, 2023
Benni Fish

By Erin Whitten

Relationships are a beautiful journey. They bring joy, laughter, growth, and sometimes, challenges that test our patience, endurance, and sense of self. A healthy relationship should be a mutual exchange of love, respect, and support. However, if you consistently feel like you’re giving more than you’re getting, you may be in a one-sided relationship. Here are six concrete signs that your relationship might be one-sided and how you can navigate this tricky terrain.

You’re Always The Initiator

If you’re the one always planning dates, initiating conversations, or making compromises, it could be a sign that you’re in a one-sided relationship. A healthy relationship thrives on balance. Your partner should also be eager to contribute to the relationship, showing interest in your life, and initiating plans. If it feels like it’s all on you, take a step back and evaluate the effort your partner is putting in. Remember, it’s not about keeping score, but about feeling valued and loved

Your Feelings Are Often Dismissed

In a one-sided relationship, your feelings may often be dismissed or undervalued. If your partner doesn’t…

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