5 Practical Ways To Cut Cords With Someone

Cutting energetic cords is an essential self-care practice for those seeking to release negative attachments and foster personal growth.

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Mikhail Nilov

By Karin Hadadan

Cutting energetic cords is an essential self-care practice for those seeking to release negative attachments and foster personal growth. It’s setting the intention that you no longer wish to be negatively affected by someone, even if your physical bond with that person may still exist. Here are five practical ways to sever these ties so that you can continue moving forward in your life without being consumed by someone else:

1. Visualization Meditation

Visualization is a powerful tool in energy work. Begin by finding a quiet space where you can meditate without interruption. Close your eyes, take deep breaths, and envision the person or entity you wish to disconnect from. Imagine a cord linking the two of you and visualize yourself cutting it with a pair of golden scissors, signifying the end of the energetic exchange. As you do this, affirm your intention to release the connection for your highest good.

2. Write and Burn

Writing can materialize your thoughts and intentions. Take some time to write a letter to the person or entity you are releasing. Express all your feelings, thoughts, and the reasons for cutting the cord. Afterward, safely burn the letter (or rip it into pieces). The act of burning symbolizes the transformation of energy and the finality of your decision to let go.

3. Use of Crystals

Certain crystals, like black tourmaline or smoky quartz, are known for their protective and grounding properties. Carry these crystals with you, or place them in your living space. They can help absorb and transform negative energies, facilitating the cutting of unwanted cords.

4. Affirmations and Intentions

Words have power, especially when they’re used to set a clear intention. Craft personal affirmations that resonate with your goal of releasing ties. Repeat these affirmations daily, such as “I release connections that no…

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