45 Questions You Absolutely MUST Be Able To Answer Before Defining The Relationship

Thought Catalog
3 min readJun 8, 2022
Leah Kelley

By Kendra Syrdal

Defining the relationship is a HUGE step. It’s a step that in this day and age, we take about as seriously as we take our filtering preferences on Instagram or who to make our #wcw. But all jokes aside, it’s a scary and real moment that you should feel good about before actually making the decision to get serious with that person. Like it or not, defining your relationship is a big deal. And like all decisions, you should probably ask some questions before making it.

1. When you’re around them, how do they make you feel?

2. Are you excited about the possibility of them? Both on their own, and with you?

3. Do you feel like you can be yourself around them?

4. Would they lie to you?

5. Would you ever need to lie to them?

6. Are you comfortable in their home?

7. Are you comfortable around their friends?

8. Do they get along with your friends?

9. Would/will you be nervous in a less than positive way to introduce them to your family?

10. Do they respect you?

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