3 Things You Should Do During The Talking Stage

Managing your expectations during the talking stage refers to both managing expectations about who the other person is as well as who they are to you.

Thought Catalog
3 min readJan 15, 2023
Jhosua Rodríguez

By Molly Burford

The talking stage is an undefined phase in a relationship in which no labels have been set but there is definite romantic intrigue. Think lots of flirting, mostly through texting, FaceTimes, and phone calls.

People in a talking stage will also see one another in person, usually in the form of “hangouts” that are really dates without actually being called dates but are definitely date-like and flirtatious and they might even hook up. But if you ask either party what they are in regards to one another, they will most likely say something along the lines of, “We’re just talking.”

Feeling confused and stressed yet? Great! Then you understand what a talking stage is.

If you’re in the midst of a talking stage, all of this ambiguity makes it incredibly difficult to navigate. However, there are a number of things you should definitely do during a talking stage in order to preserve your sanity, save yourself time, and approach the situation in the most healthy manner you can.

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