14 Things It’s Time You Forgave Yourself For
The disasters you didn’t see coming.
By Heidi Priebe
1. The big things that you changed your mind about
The dream job you never thought you’d quit. The person you didn’t think you’d leave. The plans you had for the future that never came to fruition because something else got in the way. Life ebbs and flows and to keep up with it we have to do the same. We have to forgive ourselves for having the self-awareness to change our minds about the really big things.
2. The ways in which you fought through pain
The dark paths you shouldn’t have gone down. The crazy things you did in the name of coping that brought about more damage than good. The things you did to keep yourself alive when you didn’t know any better way. The way your survival instinct showed itself when you were too young or helpless to control it doesn’t make you a bad person. It makes you a stronger, fuller person for still being around. For having found your way back to life.
3. The person you could never love properly
The person whose words body never fit right with yours, whose thoughts weren’t the ying to your yang, whose words never quite…
